I lost my Mom when I was about 15 years old to suicide. She was tortured for a very long time by depressive mental illness and it finally took her. I understood, but it was plenty hard, especially since it left me for all intent and purpose, an orphan. My father was alive, but we weren't close. I had foster family who were very-very good to me, but it was never quite the same as having my own family.
I promised myself that one day I would publish -- somewhere -- this little bit of prose I wrote for her when I was 16. I would send it as a letter to an editor or something. I never did publish it, I guess due to fear of rejection.
Well I have a blog now, so I can publish anything I want! That fact, along with having lost another dear person to suicide recently, led me to publish now. It helps that nobody except for the spambots reads my blog anyway, so I have privacy here ;-).
Happy Mother's Day, Mom, wherever you are in the great beyond. This is for you.
Note that I never called her "Mama" in real life, only in this writing. Chalk it up to teenage drama, I guess, LOL.
Mama, Are You Listening now?
(written December 15, 1979)
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Me and my mom in 1965 |
Mama, are you listening now?
Thank you for creating me
I am not perfect
But you gave me a chance, Mama,
Are you listening now?
You put me together okay, Mama
You fed me and clothed me
And when I was hurt
You rocked me in your arms
And soothed my pain
And said "God bless your heart"
When you said that, Mama, I felt that God was really there.
Are you listening now?
The times I was happy
You were there, happy with me Mama
<snipped out a part that was just a little too teenage dramatic, LOL>
Are you listening now?
Mama, it took me awhile
But I've finally got it straight.
I know why you had to go.
But Remember, wherever I go, Mama
You'll always be with me
In a great big place in my heart.
And if you're listening now, Mama
I just want you to know
That I love you now, and I always will.
--teenage Teresa, 1979
Sending love your way.